JunJun's Fantasy

     这个礼拜苗苗老师用颇似加菲猫的口吻说了一句:"爱情来了又走了,只有猪肉卷是永恒的!"

     我只想说,希望加菲猫的猪肉卷里面永远没有三聚氰胺.

     三聚氰胺本来是添加在牲畜饲料里的,所以不排除奶牛吃了含有三聚氰胺的饲料后,已经被第一次污染的情况!所以,肉类也是有可能被污染的,加菲猫的猪肉卷也是很危险的啊!

     还是想说,质检部门怎么可以免检呢,这个物欲横流的社会里,道德的光芒越来越暗淡,只有法制的利剑闪耀出的寒光才能给世界带来些许光明!

    

    其实很早久读过了汪中求先生的"细节决定成败",不过那个时候是上大学的时候无聊才读的,基本上没有太大的目的性,而经历过很多事情以后读,感觉 就大不一样了 ,果然古人所说的"读万卷书,行万里路"是最好的学习方法啊!

    个人感觉汪先生认为这个时代太浮躁,太多人都渴望一举成名,一夜暴富.但事实上,大多数的人都是做小事的,战略只是高层们的决策,作为一名普通员工 ,关键还是自己手上的每一件小事.如何处理手上琐碎的小事,并且体现出智慧,就是差别所在.处理大事需要认真的态度,缜密的思考,全盘的把握,关键点的突破,而处理小事则更需要细节的注意 ,盲点的察觉,很多时候 这其实是一种习惯,曾经很喜欢看福耳摩思探案股市,其魅力就在于大侦探对于任何细节都会产生一种习惯性的条件反射,因此他能够通过观察你的手,知道你的职业,观察你的脸,知道你的经历,观察你的衣着,知道你的身份,观察你的神情,知道你的意图,这其实也是细节的魅力所在.而作为一名年青人,养成这样一种重视细节的习惯将会是非常有益的.很多人都会有很浮躁的心态 ,认为自己天生就是应该干大事情的,但殊不知你的宏图大业可能就会毁在你对细节上的小小不慎.所以很多时候不禁会想到,细节真是魔鬼.总之,先把自己能够做的事情处理妥贴,那可能就是成功的第一步了.

    人们说世界上有两件事情会把人的智商降低,一件是谈恋爱,另外一件就是进赌场.能够在情场和赌场依然能够保持冷静,并且思维缜密,注重细节,想必也是人生的一道难题吧!

   

      

    在很多情况下，我自己就像伊索寓言里面的那只狐狸，想尽了办法，费尽了周折，但却由于客观原因最终无法吃到那串葡萄。这时，即使坐在葡萄架下哭上一天，暴跳如雷也是无济于事，整天想着怎么把那个葡萄架子给拆了也不现实，如果不走开的话，可能最终也就成为了一只傻狐狸，早晚也是猎人的狐皮大衣，反而不如一句“这串葡萄一定是酸的，让馋嘴的麻雀去吃吧”来安慰自己，求得小狐狸内心深处的一点平衡。

    因此可以说，酸葡萄心理不失为一种让我们摆脱沉没成本的困扰、接受现实的好方法，而且可以消除心理紧张，缓和心理气氛，减少因产生攻击性冲动和攻击性行为造成的更大的损失和浪费。从这个意义上来说，小狐狸还是运用了不错的人生管理方法。人生最大的效率其实在于：真正有勇气来改变可以改变的事情，有度量接受不可改变的事情，有智慧来分辨两者的不同。在此感谢一下这只可怜又可爱的小狐狸带给我的人生启示！！！

    最近有静下心来好好看书,所以对于很久没有碰的经济类书籍再次发生了兴趣,特别是博弈论,感觉过去对于博弈论的理解实在是有一些粗浅.

    传统经济学的鼻祖亚当.斯密在其传世经典<<国民财富的性质和原因的原因>>中这样描述市场机制:"当个人在追求他自己的私利时,市场的看不见的手会导致最佳经济后果."这就是说,每个人的自利行为在"看不见的手"的指引下,追求自身利益最大化的同时也会促进社会利益的增长,也就是利己也会互利.

    这种以个体利益最大为目标的理性被称为"个体理性",而有完美的分析能力和不会犯选择行为的错误被称为"完全理性".完全理性包括追求最大利益的理性意识,分析推理能力,识别能力,记忆能力和准确行为能力等多方的完美表现,其中任何一方面不完美就不属于完全理性.

    但是,囚徒困境模型动摇了传统经济学的理论基础,在囚徒困境中,如果囚徒完全理性的,并且是完全自利的话,就绝对不会出现一个囚徒选择"坦白"而另一个囚徒选择"抵赖"的局面;也不会同时出现"抵赖"的局面,因此个人理性与群体理性出现的矛盾便展开了,个体理性出发的行为最终也不一定能真正实现隔离利益最大化,甚至会得到相当差的结果.

    从囚徒困境及其变形模型中,可以证明:在人们互相交往的过程中,每个行为主体的利己主义决策结果,可能是有效率的,也可能是没有效率的,但多次重复的话,最后肯定是低效率的.

    通过这个结论,许多问题就很清楚了.上海人大多数都非常精明,也就是经济学中的"理性",但是上海人很多却不富裕,而且在全国口碑不太好,也就是这个原因,上海人在与人交往的过程中,太多时候,能够作出个体的最优决策,因此,长期来看,上海人这个群体的效率就相对低下,群体的效率低下,那个体自然也好不到哪里去,形成了所谓的囚徒困境!

    如何解决这个问题,那我们得学学蒙牛集团的老总牛根生,一位我十分敬佩的企业家,他有两句话,是解决问题的良方,第一句:"要想知道,打个颠倒",这句话从经济学角度解释,也就是说我们必须摸清对方的想法,了解对方的最优选择,这是我们进行理性博弈的首要依据.第二句:"吃亏是福,占便宜是祸",这句话便是说当知道了对方的可能选择后,尽量让对方占便宜,自己吃点亏,这样的话就让对方做最优选择,自己做相对不是最优的选择,这样的话,总的来说,总的效益是相对高效的!

    仔细想想,一个团队如果都是理性人,这个团队的凝聚力相对于一个团队都不是那么理性的,只有不多的理性人的团队来说,可能总的效率还过犹不及.

    所以,我们要提倡奉献精神,雷锋精神,从经济学角度看,那也是正确的,正是有那些我们认为的"傻瓜",社会才能更快发展,才能够创造出更大价值,可能你认为雷锋是没有什么经济价值,那你就大错特错了,如果现在雷锋还活着的话,那么他的名字所蕴含的无形资产也将是你所无法想象的.

    继续深入学习博弈论.........

    不经意之间，我得到一颗种子

    在春天的时候，我把它种在了心里

    未曾想到，它竟然发出了绿绿的嫩芽

    惊讶着，欣喜着，伴随着点滴的羞涩

    我想让它快点长大，每天给它浇水，让它沐浴阳光

    我开始幻想，那会是一棵树，还是一朵花

    甚至会是童话中的藤蔓，能够通往巨人的殿堂

    春天的和风细雨，让嫩芽渐渐长大

    夏天的如火骄阳，似乎也没有让它把头低下

    但是，我却忽略了它还如此稚嫩，没有能力去对抗任何风吹雨打

    但是，就是这样一场夏天的雨，让我清醒了一下

    但它也让我的小苗儿渐渐开始枯黄，

    我想尽办法去拯救它，不想让它枯萎在我心灵的土壤上，

    猛然间，我知道了这颗种子的名字，

    它不是一棵树，也不是一朵花，它叫做爱情

   

   

   

      又是一年欧洲杯，亿万球迷夜难寐。对于欧洲杯的愉快回忆那是在四年以前刚进大学的时候，321寝室的一帮男生全体出动， 夜色刚浓，我们就在离华师大后门不远，枣阳路上的一间小茶坊内吹起了集结的号角，然后便是通宵的足球盛宴，即使是考试，也无法阻挡我们的热情，因为对于年轻人来说，欧洲杯是我们一个不小的节日。

      上届欧洲杯是希腊的天下，这个来自爱琴海的小国因为她的神话而被世界了解，但是我们这一代人可能更容易联想到的是圣斗士星矢，而希腊球员仿佛是圣斗士附体 ，在技术条件完全落后的情况下，见谁灭谁，在甲鱼和耿杰兄，当然也包括本人的一路谩骂声中，居然折桂，真他妈应验了一句话：一切皆有可能！

      今年的欧洲杯，一晃又是决赛了，德国与西班牙，红白大对抗。细腻的葡萄牙、激情的荷兰、强悍的捷克、保守的意大利、当然，还有我最为欣赏的力量与技术的完美结合：年轻的克罗地亚，如果不是裁判多加了一分钟，那么现在站在决赛战场上的人，可能就是他们。年轻的摇滚教练比利奇，看似一副坏小子模样，其实却是一位拥有法学硕士学位，并精通多国语言的天才教练，他拒绝了欧洲豪门百万欧元的年薪，甘于拿着克罗地亚足协给的区区12万欧元年薪，而且一干就干到2010年。

       足球场上最可爱的人，就是执著于这项运动本身的人，因为有那么多真正热爱足球的人，才有了夏夜里如此激情，如此美妙的表演。斗牛士曼妙的步法，德国战车坚硬的装甲，临晨时分，将要一决高下！！！！！！

                                           THE DECLARATION OF INDEPENDENCE

                                                                   Congress, July 4, 1776,

                            THE UNANIMOUS DECLARATION OF THE THIRTEEN UNITED STATES OF AMERICA

When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the Powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness.

That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed.

That whenever any form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to the m shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shown, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object, evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Des potism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.

Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.

He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.

He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.

He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.

He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.

He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.

He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected; whereby the Legislative powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.

He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws of Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands .

He has obstructed the Administration of Justice, by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary powers.

He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.

He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harass our People, and eat out their substance.

He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.

He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil power.

He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:

For quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:

For protecting them, by a mock Trial, from Punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:

For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:

For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent:

For depriving us in many cases, of the benefits of Trial by Jury:

For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences:

For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into t hese Colonies:

For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws, and altering fundamentally the forms of our Governments:

For suspending our own Legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.

He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.

He has plundered our seas, ravaged our Coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the Lives of our people.

He is at this time transporting large armies of foreign mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty & perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy the H ead of a civilized nation.

He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.

He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages, whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.

In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince, whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.

Nor have We been wanting in attention to our British brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and sett lement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf t o the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.

We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these United Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States; that they are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the State of Great Bri tain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. An d for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the Protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.

JOHN HANCOCK, President

Attested, CHARLES THOMSON, Secretary

New Hampshire: JOSIAH BARTLETT, WILLIAM WHIPPLE, MATTHEW THORNTON

Massachusetts-Bay: SAMUEL ADAMS, JOHN ADAMS, ROBERT TREAT PAINE, ELBRIDGE GERRY

Rhode Island: STEPHEN HOPKINS, WILLIAM ELLERY

Connecticut: ROGER SHERMAN, SAMUEL HUNTINGTON, WILLIAM WILLIAMS, OLIVER WOLCOTT

Georgia: BUTTON GWINNETT, LYMAN HALL, GEO. WALTON

Maryland: SAMUEL CHASE, WILLIAM PACA, THOMAS STONE, CHARLES CARROLL OF CARROLLTON

Virginia: GEORGE WYTHE, RICHARD HENRY LEE, THOMAS JEFFERSON, BENJAMIN HARRISON, THOMAS NELSON, JR., FRANCIS LIGHTFOOT LEE, CARTER BRAXTON.

New York: WILLIAM FLOYD, PHILIP LIVINGSTON, FRANCIS LEWIS, LEWIS MORRIS

Pennsylvania: ROBERT MORRIS, BENJAMIN RUSH, BENJAMIN FRANKLIN, JOHN MORTON, GEORGE CLYMER, JAMES SMITH, GEORGE TAYLOR, JAMES WILSON, GEORGE ROSS

Delaware: CAESAR RODNEY, GEORGE READ, THOMAS M'KEAN

North Carolina: WILLIAM HOOPER, JOSEPH HEWES, JOHN PENN

South Carolina: EDWARD RUTLEDGE, THOMAS HEYWARD, JR., THOMAS LYNCH, JR., ARTHUR MIDDLETON

New Jersey: RICHARD STOCKTON, JOHN WITHERSPOON, FRANCIS HOPKINS, JOHN HART, ABRAHAM CLARK

Pennsylvania: Robert Morris， Benjamin Rush， Benjamin Franklin， John Morton， George Clymer， James Smith， George Taylor， James Wilson， George Ross

Delaware: Caesar Rodney， George Read， Thomas McKean

Maryland: Samuel Chase， William Paca， Thomas Stone， Charles Carroll of Carrollton

Virginia: George Wythe， Richard Henry Lee， Thomas Jefferson， Benjamin Harrison， Thomas Nelson， Jr.， Francis Lightfoot Lee， Carter Braxton

North Carolina: William Hooper， Joseph Hewes， John Penn

South Carolina: Edward Rutledge， Thomas Heyward， Jr.， Thomas Lynch， Jr.， Arthur Middleton

Georgia: Button Gwinnett， Lyman Hall， George Walton.   

    看来这辈子和英语的缘分是断不了了，这次又去考了金融英语初级，真是孽缘阿，而且某些人的blog还是全英语的，搞得和原版书一样，真是让人大为吐血，而且转念一想，周sb这斯又要从亚美利加回来了，到时候肯定会操一口夹带大量阴沟里洗的上海话，只怕到时候，俺要冒充一回老乡了......

    言归正传，其实一直想看一下美国的《独立宣言》得全文，在国家宝藏的第一部里面，Nicolas Cage说过其中的一段，前面会用红字标出，是非常有气势的，其中蕴含了改变那个时代的力量，从此，世界的格局也因此发生了巨大的变化。这使我领悟到，语言来源于文化和历史，如果能够了解好那个国家的历史，那就更加可以理解他们的语言！